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C2verbformalworkrelationships

US/ɪnˈɡreɪ.ʃi.eɪt/
UK/ɪnˈɡreɪ.ʃi.eɪt/

to try to make someone like you, especially by praising them or doing what they want

In context

  • He tried to ingratiate himself with the new boss by bringing her coffee every morning.

  • She quickly ingratiated herself with her husband's family.

  • Politicians often ingratiate themselves with voters just before an election.

Words that go with ingratiate

verb + preposition

  • ingratiate himself withThe new intern tried to ingratiate himself with everyone in the office.

adjective + noun

  • ingratiating smileThe salesman greeted us with an ingratiating smile.
  • ingratiating mannerHis ingratiating manner made the other guests uncomfortable.
  • ingratiating toneShe asked for a pay rise in an ingratiating tone.
  • ingratiating voice'You look wonderful today,' he said in an ingratiating voice.

Common mistakes

  • Incorrect: He always ingratiates the manager.

    Correct: He always ingratiates himself with the manager.