C2idiominformaldecisions
damned if you do, damned if you don't
USUK
whatever you choose, you will be criticised or suffer
A complete saying, often shortened to 'damned if you do'. 'Damned' is mild swearing: avoid it in formal writing. Not the same as 'I'll be damned' (a surprise).
In context
Whether I refuse the offer or accept it, I will regret it: I'm damned if I do, damned if I don't.
Speak up and your boss is annoyed; stay silent and you feel guilty. You're damned if you do, damned if you don't.
More idioms about decisions
- a Catch-22a situation you can't escape because each solution depends on the other
- a change of hearta change in your opinion or plan, usually towards a kinder or different view
- a double-edged swordsomething that has both good and bad effects
- a fait accomplisomething already decided or done that others must now accept
- a foregone conclusiona result that is certain before it happens